First, I would like to say happy New Year to all.

As a volunteer and advocate for Sexual Assault Victims Advocate Resource (SAVAR), I feel that it is crucial to let our community know what Cayuga County is accomplishing for all men, women and children in our surroundings.

A Child Advocacy Center is on the way. This means that all persons that come in contact with sexual abuse can get free appropriate help for their families. Emotional well-being is important in everyday life, and victims need support to overcome the obstacles that they have been faced with.

I joined SAVAR's crusade a few years ago, and it is my belief that without the proper intervention, people lose themselves because of guilt, lack of self-esteem or denial. The positive part is a victim can become a survivor and move on with their life and find themselves again. All of these feelings are part of the healing process - all of these feelings are justified for the victims.

If you are out there and reading this article, you have choices.

Now, let me explain the importance of a strong community. If all people took a stand against sexual violence and assault, our community would be a safer place. I am not delusional to think that at a snap of our fingers we can make these predators go away, but if the majority rules to say “no more,” what do you think would happen?

It is our duty as parents, neighbors and professionals to step up and not only say “no more,” but to volunteer some of our time to a great cause. I realize that in the hustle and bustle of life that people say sarcastically, “sure, I have the time to volunteer.” There's children, the dog, basketball practice, etc., but SAVAR is flexible and in need of volunteers.

We know that “it takes a village” to raise a child, and we also know that “it takes a community” to build strong families, so why aren't we?

Our society is one that says: “this will never happen to anyone in my family because ...” This is an example of how we separate ourselves from the “turmoil in life.” I understand how people might feel this way, but this is how we might divide ourselves from our community.

Just remember that abuse does not discriminate: it festers and does not leave, and it lives in silence within the victim. No one should have to live this way. The urgency is there for support.

Please take my words into consideration. We learn from our experiences, and no one should experience abuse.

Learn how to support men, women and children who come in contact with sexual assault and help strive for a stronger community.

Tracy Smith is a volunteer with SAVAR